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Introducing anal play can bring novelty and excitement to a long-term relationship. This guide offers tips on how to suggest it without pressure, start slowly with external massage, and incorporate toys. Focused on exploration and mutual pleasure as a way to reconnect and keep intimacy fresh.

Not all lubes are created equal for anal sex. We review and compare the top 5 types, from long-lasting silicone-based lubes to cushioning hybrid formulas and thick water-based jellies. Find the best lubricant for your needs based on longevity, sensitivity, and compatibility with toys.

We’ve compiled the most frequently asked questions about anal sex and provided clear, expert-backed answers. Topics include: "Will it make me loose?" "What if there’s a mess?" "Can I get pregnant?" and "How do I clean beforehand?" Get the facts and feel more confident.

Many couples consider anal sex as an alternative to vaginal sex postpartum. This guide discusses the important considerations, including waiting for medical clearance, dealing with hemorrhoids from pregnancy, communicating about body changes, and proceeding with extra care and patience.

Portrayals of anal sex in pornography are often unrealistic and omit crucial steps like preparation and communication. This guide contrasts the fantasy with the reality, helping you set realistic expectations for pace, lubrication, potential mess, and the emotional connection required for a positive real-life experience.

While typically for vaginal use, certain weighted kegel balls can be used anally for muscle training and sensation. This guide explains how to use them safely (always with a retrieval cord!), the benefits for sphincter control and pleasure, and how to choose the right set for anal play.

Anal pleasure can be accessible to people with various disabilities or chronic pain conditions. This guide offers adaptive strategies, including position modifications, using pillows for support, choosing the right toys, and the importance of communicating specific needs and limitations with a partner.

A tingling sensation during anal play can be normal or a sign of irritation. We explore the possible causes, from the natural nerve response and certain lubricants (like those with menthol) to mild allergic reactions. Learn how to identify the source and ensure your comfort and safety.

Numbing creams are dangerous for anal sex because pain is a crucial signal that something is wrong. This guide explains the risks of numbing agents, including increased chance of tearing and STI transmission, and promotes safe alternatives like more lube, communication, and relaxation instead.