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Anal sex is surrounded by misinformation. We tackle and debunk the most persistent myths, such as "it’s only for gay men," "it’s always painful," and "you can’t get STIs." Replacing fiction with fact helps reduce stigma and allows for safer, more informed sexual experiences.

Anal play can offer intense pleasure for men due to the dense network of nerve endings and the prostate gland (often called the P-spot). This guide explores the anatomy of male anal pleasure, techniques for prostate stimulation, and how it can lead to powerful orgasms, whether you identify as straight, gay, or bisexual.

For women, the anus is packed with sensitive nerve endings that can contribute to overwhelming pleasure. This guide discusses the anatomy, how anal stimulation can enhance clitoral and vaginal orgasms, and how to explore this type of pleasure in a way that feels safe and empowering.

Pegging involves a woman penetrating a man anally with a strap-on dildo. This guide covers everything from the conversation starter kit and choosing the right harness and dildo, to techniques for the giver and receiver. Focused on trust, communication, and exploring new dimensions of intimacy.

Condoms are a critical tool for reducing friction and preventing STI transmission during anal sex. This guide explains why condoms are even more important for anal than vaginal sex, how to choose the right type (stronger materials are often recommended), and how to use them correctly to avoid breakage.

Having a pre-existing condition like hemorrhoids or anal fissures doesn’t necessarily mean anal sex is off the table, but it requires extra care. Learn how to identify these conditions, when to avoid sex, and how to proceed safely with a doctor’s guidance to prevent further injury and pain.

The anal sphincters are muscles that need training. “Stretching” here means gradual acclimation, not force. This guide provides a step-by-step plan using fingers and progressively sized toys over multiple sessions to help your muscles learn to relax, leading to more comfortable and enjoyable penetration.

Anal orgasms are a unique and powerful experience for people of all genders. This guide explores the techniques that can help lead to orgasm, including combined clitoral or penile stimulation, finding the right angle for prostate or perineal contact, and the mental aspect of letting go into pleasure.

Rimming, or oral-anal contact, can be highly stimulating but carries specific bacterial and viral risks. This guide covers how to reduce risks with dental dams and good hygiene, the importance of partner communication, and techniques to maximize pleasure for the receiver safely.